I don't know what you are apologizing for ' cause I was not there. :-D Anyways, I do not understand why some Beeks get into a fracas over beekeeping beyond Bee Biology, I've read somewhere that all Beekeeping is local, what works for one does not necessary work for another, yet there are basically an infinite number of ways to manipulate and manage bees successfully and unsuccessfully. I believe all Beginners ( I was once ) go through a difficult period trying to learn the scope of beekeeping because they ask different Beeks the same questions, but get different answers, once you gain some experience, you will finally settle on a style, if you will, that works for you and your bees ( they adapt better than us humans ). I am now finishing my fourth year and finally found my niche here in NJ. I read many books, and attended many meetings, had a few mentors and I am proud to mention that I have settled on a particular way of beekeeping that has worked very well for me and my bees are healthier for it, if you care to look at the bottom of my post, you will see some names of Beekeepers that I am grateful for, because it is their ways that I have adopted. :-D
So as a beginner, good luck and Happy Learning :-D
BH