I'm not sure how the venom levels differ in the honeybee kingdom, but different bees such as the dreaded Yellow Jacket packs a major venom which I read ounce for ounce equals rattlesnake.
I would say the biggest difference in pain levels is a combo of where on the body, and how close to a pressure point (acupunturely speaking) and how much FLESH is under the skin.
Then neck has some burning, but it is a uniformly warm burn, not a super stinging electrical (almost) kind of feeling. My wife had done major tendon damage and we tried apitheraphy around her ankle - very tender area with no flesh to absorb the venom. Fatty areas I think are easier, places like the lower back and the face can be murder - we all get hit on the face from time to time - huh?
About my fall. I had been working for the County Road Department, my first real job and the job that eventually lead me to Boiler-man. My job was to cut truck and car tires vertically (like a bagel) on a huge machine, leaving a small hinge to form a figure 8 when laid down. They were laid flat and compressed and strapped together, and filled with concrete and then trucked out to a barge, to be dropped into the ocean to form an artificial reef. The process worked miracles at getting sea creatures to repopulated areas that had been eroded away due to storms, over-fished or died off due to low oxygen levels. Fish flourished.
One day, we couldn't get the front-end loader to pull tires from the massive pile of tens of thousands of tires, so my boss instructed me an another fellow to climb up and try to toss several down until the loader was available. I got nearly to the top and it was Mid Winter, ice had formed into the tire making it feel secure to step on, but my weigh cause the ice inside to break and I went tumbling down.
I tossed my arm out in front of my face, it was one of those slow-motion moments and when I hit, I heard my elbow shatter. It was an asphalt surface, but I caught a piece of the pile as I fell and I think it was enough to save my life - I have read surviving a 20ft fall is less than 1/3rd, so I was extremely lucky.
Within 10 minutes my arm went from its initially numb feeling to fully immobile to severe pain. I was in a cast for about 5 weeks and my neck finally began to hurt as my arm healed. I worked there for 6 months, moved up to equipment operator (mostly lawn mower, but often dump-trucks for snow plowing) and eventually to Buildings and Grounds where I did 5 years as boilerman in a brand new jail facility. I left there in 1989 to work for the US Navy here in Lakehurst and except for a knee replacement and some serious brain infections that nearly killed me, I'm relatively health - only problems I continue to have are migraines and short term memory loss.
I sure hope Cindi you give VENTRILO VOICE CHAT a try - see the voice forum, I'd love to actually talk with you as so many others would!!!
I replied to your PM also, hope that helps :)