Bee balm is ignored by honey bees, but bumbles and hummingbirds cant resist. Anise hyssop will be attacked in about a week or so in your area and about three weeks in mine. Dont fret. I think the flowers need to mature or something else has their attention. Miner are being ignored right now too, but will be attcked soon!!!My bees ignore lots of things. I presume they have something better to forage. Also, some things are only foraged at certain times of the day, such as qafternoon, or morning only.