Michael, welcome to our forum, so great that you so inadvertently found us, by wanting those answers to your hot bees. We have so many members coming to us from different parts of our world, it is a beautiful thing. Stick around, this will be the place to tell your stories, tales and experiences, you will meet some new friends too, we love new members. I have read your other posts, we have those rules that keep our forum safe and so family friendly, I saw there was some conversation about links and stuff. There was no intention to be mean or anything like that, sometimes words can come across a little more strong than really intended, nothing was meant to sound like that. It is important that all new members understand the simple rules of our forum, so that, as I said, it can be 100% safe to hang out around here. You will see, as you read and get involved here, that is a very pure and beautiful place to spend time.
I can recall when I first joined the forum some years ago, it was a time when the Moderators were sorting out some stuff. This first time that I came into the forum (or may have been the second time) there was some pornography that showed up on my computer screen. I almost cried, I felt insulted and was very angry. I told one of the Moderators. As I said, it was a time when they had some really big issues here that were being sorted out, and this crap had snuck in. Since that day, (the issues were quickly sorted out, we have a wonderful group of Moderators that keep us safe), I have never, ever had any reason to not return day, after day, a safe place in our place of cyper. Eeeks, I am ramblin'....you will see that there are a few of us (not many), but a few that tend to ramble on.....I be that ramblin' gal.
Anyways, Michael, as I said, please do stick around. Each and every one of us as members makes this forum complete. We are a group of people, as like what you said about yourself, think so many times of others before we even begin to entertain the thought of thinking of ourselves. You will love to spend time here, trust me, I know first hand. We have a wealth of knowledge here, sitting right at our fingertips, only to push a few buttons, to get a message, question or whatever out, and get that mountain of answers. Thank you for find us Michael. Have that most wonderful day, to love and live, to enjoy, health. Cindi